You know, most of my life, I have never had just a best friend. I mean there were people who I treated like a best friend but I was treated just as a regular friend.
After awhile, I started looking up what a “best friend” meant and this is what I found (courtesy of UrbanDictionary.com! lol)
Many people, not all, go through different best friends throughout life. However, usually a person only has one real, true best friend in all that time. A best friend is not only someone you have a good time with, it is also someone you believe you can trust your life with. A best friend is the first person you call when the most amazing things happen in your life, and when the most horrific incidents happen. A best friend is the person you will always remember no matter what comes about. Some people lose the only true best friend they will ever have, and even when they get new “best friends” .. that old, real best friend is always on their mind. A best friend is almost like real family, a best friend gives the opinion you usually care most about. A best friend is the one who tells you the things you absolutely need to hear regardless of whether you want to hear it or not. A best friend is the person you usually can be around always and never get sick of. A best friend is someone you don’t envy, and is the person you are grateful to have as a friend. A best friend is the one who will forgive you always, even when you’ve screwed up so bad. And a best friend is the one who even though you may have drifted apart from, when the time comes for them to hug you or congratulate you on an accomplishment or to console you on a loss.. they are the number one person you want to see, always because they are the person you’ve confided the most in and they are the person who knows you the best .. even when you both have changed.
I have NEVER had a best friend ever.
I wish that I could just order one. Order a best friend that will and doesn’t have a problem reciprocating the same actions I do for them. I have been that “best” friend for a lot of people but I can’t tell you who have been a “best” friend to me.
I actually do get jealous of those who have best friends….
I just feel kind of bad because I feel that I will never be good enough to be on the best friend level with someone.
I am just a friend. Nothing more, most of the time, always less…..
Oh well, what can a woman do?! *shrugs*